By Invitation. By Choice.
Black Tie Palm Springs is a private social club for gay gentlemen — selective by design, welcoming by nature. Membership connects you to a national community across 15+ cities, bound by a shared appreciation for elegant company, fine dining, and meaningful friendship.
What Membership Offers
As a member of Black Tie Palm Springs, you gain access to one of the most distinctive social networks available to gay gentlemen in the United States — with privileges that travel with you.
Access to All 15+ Chapters
Attend events hosted by any Black Tie chapter across the country — your membership travels with you.
Priority Event Invitations
Members receive early access and priority reservations to all dinners, cocktail evenings, and black-tie galas.
Exclusive Dinners & Wine Experiences
From curated wine pairings to private chef evenings, our culinary events are crafted for discerning palates.
Black-Tie & Casual Gatherings
Our calendar spans formal gala evenings to relaxed cocktail socials, giving members varied ways to connect.
Friendship & Meaningful Connections
Meet a national network of like-minded gentlemen who share your values, tastes, and sense of occasion.
A Community Built on Discretion
Membership is by invitation only, ensuring every gathering is among gentlemen who belong.
A National Community
Black Tie has grown into a coast-to-coast community, with chapters in over 15 cities. Wherever you travel, a Black Tie gathering is never far away — and your membership opens every door.
Current chapters include Palm Springs, Los Angeles, San Francisco, San Diego, Phoenix, Las Vegas, Seattle, Portland, Denver, Dallas, Houston, Chicago, Miami, New York, and Washington D.C. — with new cities joining regularly.
Express Your Interest
Membership in Black Tie Palm Springs is by invitation only — but we welcome enquiries from gentlemen who feel they may be the right fit. Reach out through our contact page and a member of our team will be in touch personally.